My soon-to-be-ex-husband has supervised visitation every Saturday from 9a-3p and there are two supervisors which alternate.
The first week the kids were going with him to one supervisor’s house (about 70 miles away) and he showed up to get the kids without car seats. I let him borrow mine.
The second week I met him at the other supervisor’s house. He didn’t have car seats, so they didn’t go anywhere.
This weekend the kids will go 70 miles again and he called saying he doesn’t have (and cannot afford) car seats. He has NEVER paid child support and he lives with his brother for free and doesn’t pay for anything (I pay all our joint bills to keep things from being shut off) so I don’t know how he can work full time and have no money. He wants to borrow my car seats again.
I’ve been trying to find an Arizona law or something that clarifies whether he needs to provide his own car seats, or if I have to let him use mine. I’m truly afraid that he will decide not to return them. He has already started taking things from me saying they were bought with "his" money.
Can I just deny the car seats and tell him to go buy some before he can take the kids???
Also our oldest is 5, but she still sits in a booster seat. Can I not let her go with him without a car seat or do I have to let her go because state law says she doesn’t have to have one?
I’m divorcing him because he cheated on me ove rand over again. And the final straw was when he pointed a gun at me because I told him I wanted a divorce. So don’t tell me I’m not an adult. I have been trying to raise three children and a god-damned monkey of a husband for 6 years and I finally gave up on him every changing. Just answer the question and don’t judge me for doing the best thing I could for my kids.
Didn’t you wonder why the visitation was SUPERVISED?!?!?! That was a court order.
The supervisor comes with him to pick up the kids.

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aww… i feel so sorry for my little older brother. hes 16 and really short like my aunts and grandmas. im his younger sister 13 and way taller than him thanks to my parents. my parents are divorced my dad lives in ny while we’re here in california with our mom. but hears where i feel sorry, since our mom is very overprotective for me and my brother (mainly him since hes so much smaller than me) my moms making him sit in a booster seat haha.

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she bought this today at babiesrus which was really funny cuz he felt like a baby. my mom is making him sit in it every time he goes somewhere. Its not required since hes 16 but since hes 4’8"/76lbs and i guess the law says must be 4’9" my mom doesnt want to risk him getting hurt. so today when we went shopping, my mom sat him and buckled him up in the seat as if he was a baby while i got to sit in the front cuz im 5’9"/108lbs. it was so funny and cute he really hates it of course cuz ive been picking on him about it. so i was wondering, does he really have to use a booster according to the law? he’s 16 years old, 4’8"/76lbs, not a dwarf just really short.

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I have a one year old who is now able to face forward and I am about to have another baby in May. I know he needs to be rear facing. So my question is, what is the safest way to position both car seats in my car? I drive an impala so the back seat is roomy.

One other note, I really dont want them too close together because im afraid my one year old wont understand she needs to be gentile with her brother if she can reach him.

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